- Lois Wilson (activist)
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Lois Wilson "Lois Wilson née Burnham (
4 March 1891 –6 October ,1988 ) was the founder ofAl-Anon , a support group for the friends and family ofalcoholics . She was the wife ofAlcoholics Anonymous founderBill W .She was born into affluence in Brooklyn Heights with her father being a prominent
surgeon andgynecologist .Abraham Lincoln 's grandchildren were playmates of her siblings when they were young and they attended prestigious schools. Her family were adherents ofSwedenborgianism , but the schools she attended in youth tended to be Quaker in nature.Her marriage to Bill W. began to degrade due to the combination of a series of miscarriages and his drinking problem. Lois began to work on programs to help families of alcoholics after Bill had gone through rehabilitation and founded AA. These efforts led to the founding of
Al-Anon , although this was not the first program of its kind.The marriage was further strained by Bill's many adulterous affairs. He considered eloping to Ireland with his long-term mistress.
After Bill died in 1971 of
emphysema , Lois inherited 90% of her late husband's estate and copyright royalties from the "Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous". Bill left the other 10% of his estate to his longstanding mistress.Without children, she left the home (Stepping Stones) in
Bedford Hills, New York that she and Bill had owned since 1941 to theStepping Stones Foundation . It is on theNational Register of Historic Places and has become a tour destination for members of the12-step organizations.References
*Borchert, William. "The Lois Wilson Story: When Love Is Not Enough". Hazelden, 2005. ISBN 1-59285-328-5
*Ragge, Ken. "The Real AA: Behind the Myth of Twelve Step Recovery". See Sharp Press, 1997. ISBN 1-88436-514-0
* "Lois's Story", How Al-Anon Works for Families and Friends of Alcoholics. Virginia Beach, VA: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., 136-137. ISBN 0-910034-26-5.External links
* [http://www.steppingstones.org/loisstory.html A short biography]
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