21 Things I Want in a Lover

Infobox Single
Name = 21 Things I Want in a Lover


Caption = German "Under Rug Swept" album sampler
Artist = Alanis Morissette
from Album = Under Rug Swept
A-side =
B-side =
Released = November 2002
Format = Radio single
Recorded =
Genre = Alternative rock
Length = 3:28
Label = Maverick
Writer = Alanis Morissette
Producer = Alanis Morissette
Certification =
Last single = "Flinch" (2002)
This single = "21 Things I Want in a Lover" (2002)
Next single = "Surrendering" (2002)
Misc =

"21 Things I Want in a Lover" is a alternative rock song written by Alanis Morissette, and produced by her for her sixth album, "Under Rug Swept" (2002). The song features guitarist Dean DeLeo of Stone Temple Pilots.

Theme

Morissette said that she is joking in one part of the song, but in another she's "dead serious. The more aware of the qualities I am looking for, the more I'm able to recognize them when they appear, as opposed to having the initial meeting romantically be singularly dependent on chemical reaction or some intangible, indefinable, heart-palpitating, palm- sweating thing ... [that] often result [s] in a huge amount of incompatibility, so the concept of compatibility is so much more important to me as I get older." [http://www.msopr.com/mso/morissette-cutbycut.html "Alanis Morissette talks about songs from 'Under Rug Swept'"] . MSO. Retrieved April 5 2007.] According to her, the song does not mention every quality she desires in a lover; she said she had "like 673 things" on her list, and that "It has to be updated after every guy."Sullivan, Kate. [http://www.istnet.net.au/~cawdor/article30.html "Well Rounded Little Pill"] . "Spin". March 2002. Retrieved April 5 2007.]

Release and reception

"Q" magazine said the song contained "a trampoline-bouncing guitar riff to detract attention from lyrics packed tighter than a holiday suitcase." [Blake, Mark. [http://web.archive.org/web/20041101014920/http://www.q4music.com/nav?page=q4music.artist.review&fixture_review=139433&fixture_artist=142190 "Review - Alanis Morissette: Under Rug Swept"] . "Q". February 2002. Retrieved January 28 2007 from the Wayback Machine.] Robert Christgau wrote, "Morissette instantly demonstrates her gift for the catchy, crunching out a guitar riff and then revealing 21 'not necessarily needs but things that I prefer' in a lover. Stretching out il-lu-si-on and for-med to suit scansion or mood, opposing capital punishment and coming out for sex 'more than three times a week,' topping memorable verse with indelible chorus, she's a self-actualized nut who goes for what she wants, exactly as pretentious as the college girls she represents for." [Christgau, Robert. [http://www.robertchristgau.com/get_artist.php?id=26&name=Alanis+Morissette "Alanis Morissette"] . robertchristgau.com. Retrieved January 28 2007.] The "LA Weekly" called it "a wholly satisfying pop-rocker [that] launches the album with her laundry-list lyric style", [Lewis, Miles Marshall. [http://www.laweekly.com/music/music-reviews/cool-schmool/10621/ "Music Reviews"] . "LA Weekly". March 13 2002. Retrieved January 28 2007.] and "Rolling Stone" characterised it as a "power-chorded personal ad". [Pareles, Jon. [http://www.rollingstone.com/artists/alanismorissette/albums/album/240512/review/5944461/under_rug_swept "Alanis Morissette - Under Rug Swept"] . "Rolling Stone". March 14 2002, RS 891. Retrieved January 28 2007.]

"21 Things I Want in a Lover" was released to radio and television as the third single from "Under Rug Swept" in Brazil. It entered the Brasil Top 100 Singles chart in mid-November 2002 and reached number forty-eight, its peak, at the end of the month; it remained on the chart for eight weeks, until early January 2003. It was the first single from the album not to reach the top forty. [ [http://www.mariah-charts.com/chartdata/PAlanisMorissette.htm "Alanis Morissette"] . Mariah-charts.com. Retrieved December 1 2006.] The music video for the single comprises clips from the DVD release "Feast on Scraps"; some of these are from a performance of the song at Ahoy in Rotterdam, Netherlands on August 13 2002, during Morissette's Toward Our Union Mended Tour. The video premiered on [Channel V|Channel [V] International] in Malaysia on November 2, [ [Channel V|Channel [V] International] . November 2 2002.] and on MTV Brazil on November 20. [http://www.mtv.com.br/prog/estreias/index.shtml. November 19 2002.]

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