Jacintha Buddicom

Jacintha Buddicom (10 May 1901-1994) was a poetess and a childhood friend of George Orwell (Eric Blair).

Buddicom was born at Plymouth but moved with her family to Shiplake, Berkshire. There she first met Eric Blair in the summer of 1914 when he was standing on his head in a field at the bottom of the Buddicoms' garden. When asked why, he replied, "You are noticed more if you stand on your head than if you are right way up". From that summer afternoon Eric and his younger sister Avril became very close friends with Buddicom and her younger brother and sister, Prosper and Guinever. With Prosper and Guiny, Blair enjoyed shooting, fishing and birdwatching, while with Jacintha he preferred to read and write poetry and dream of future intellectual adventures. At this time he told Buddicom that at some point he might write a book in a style similar to that of H. G. Wells "A Modern Utopia", although "Nineteen Eighty-Four" turned out to be far different from Buddicom’s expectations. Buddicom was educated at Oxford High School, but neither of them achieved their mutual dream of going to Oxford University. The couple lost touch shortly after Blair went to Burma. She became unsympathetic at the letters he wrote complaining about his life, and stopped writing back. The reason for this is explained in the Postscript edition [2006] of "Eric & Us" by Jacintha Buddicom, which suggests that the then eighteen-year-old Blair may have attempted to rape Buddicom shortly before his departure to Burma.

In 1927, Buddicom gave birth to an illegitimate daughter as a result of an unsuccessful affair, and had to give the baby away for a childless aunt to adopt. When Blair, who never knew of Buddicom's daughter, came back from Burma on leave that year, he assumed that she was away from the Buddicom family home because she was angry with him and they did not make contact again. She then began a 30-year affair with a peer of the Realm. It was not until 1949 a few months before Orwell’s death that Buddicom realised that George Orwell, the author of "Animal Farm" was her childhood friend Eric Blair. They exchanged a few letters and phone conversations and he was eager for her to come and see him, 'to talk about my little son Richard', but it was too late by then and a few months later, after her mother's death, she slipped unnoticed into Orwell’s funeral service at Christ Church, Marylebone in 1950.

Buddicom was at great pains to dispute the picture of childhood misery described by Orwell in his essay "Such, Such Were the Joys". She claimed that "he was a specially happy child", writing "There was no harping on inferiority and poverty by Eric then... The picture painted of a wretched little neurotic, snivelling miserably before a swarm of swanking bullies, suspecting that he smelt, just was not Eric at all." And she made a systematic investigation of many of his claims and allegations in order to disprove them. She described him as an aloof and undemonstrative boy and recalled him as being self-sufficient with no need of a wide circle of friends.

Buddicom lived with her sister for many years. She designed two Shropshire houses, and two motor-caravans for which she won prizes. She wrote a book of poetry published in America, and her "Cat Poems" were published in 1972, two years before Eric & Us, a memoir of her friendship with Orwell, appeared. Among her many talents she was also extremely gifted in astrology, being an excellent mathematician. She mapped horoscopes for many famous people, from Aleister Crowley (sometimes called the wickedest man in the world) to The Beatles. This was a very private part of her life and faded as she grew old.

After her death, her cousin Dione Venables, who was left the copyrights for the book and a quantity of family papers, did much indepth research and in 2006 was able to publish an updated version of "Eric and Us", including all the previously unknown material about Eric and Jacintha's relationship in a most revealing postscript.

Publications

*"Cat Poems" Leslie Frewin 1972
*"Eric and Us" Leslie Frewin, London, 1974)
*"The Young Eric" in Miriam Gross (ed) "The World of George Orwell" Weidenfield and Nicholson 1971

External References

* [http://home.planet.nl/~boe00905/OrwellBuddicom1974.html 1974 original review]
* [http://books.guardian.co.uk/review/story/0,,2014168,00.html Kathryn Hughes The Guardian Saturday February 17, 2007 reissue] Peter Burness-Smith The Henley Standard 4 October 2006Jack Grimston The Sunday Times February 4, 2007Gordon Bowker The Times Literary Supplement February 23, 2007Gerald Isaaman The Camden New Journal 26 April, 2007Ferial Evans Images Magazine November 2007